Well, let's talk about Porn.
This is what guys who watch it say "well, all guys are watching it, and it's better than cheating, isn't it?".
Well, for starter, the fact that "everyone" is doing it, doesn't make it good or less bad... Drug addicts say "well, everyone is taking drugs", it certainly does not make of drugs an "okay" thing to do, nor does it make it good... it is very dangerous in my opinion to generalize and it is even more dangerous to make it sound cool, while it only brings harm. The second part of my answer is the fact that one is the same as the other, porn and cheating... well, they are both wrong, and choosing the "lesser evil" does not make it alright. It still is bad, and it can be a first step leading to cheating. Higher expectation from your partner, that might lead to her not accepting to be treated in a certain way, that will lead eventually to find someone who might accept being treated the way you see women being treated in this sort of movies.
I find Porn very disgusting (puke level), humiliating and a real insult to humanity. Not for the classical reason which is in general : "poor actresses, they are so humiliated and bla bla bla...", but it's more of an insult for the person watching it to be honest. Actors and actresses do this for a living, it's a conscious decision to do that job, fair enough for them. The person choosing to watch porn on the other hand chooses to be taken as an animal being reduced to a sexual interaction with fake feelings where he is being fed ideas about how he should behave, what he should desire, and consciously creating frustrations in his life. There is no longer a place for imagination. There is only a heavy consumption of what you are being told to sexually desire, although you are in a healthy relationship.
Maybe I am being too traditionalist on this aspect, but I truly think that we, as human beings with thinking and feeling faculties, are better than this.
